DON'T FORGET YOUR CROWN: Self-Love has everything to do with it.

by Derrick Jaxn

Probably the most undeniable of all is that without self-love, no love matters.

Imagine Lebron James playing a full-speed pickup game with a team of aspiring wrestlers. Even if those wrestlers mean well, Lebron’s more than likely walking into a dangerous situation. The same happens when women do wifey things for boys who’ve only been prepped to look for a good time, not a lifetime.

Therefore, “A man will act right for the right woman” is not only false, but an unhealthy narrative to continue propagating. With this mindset, men will continue being unprepared for relationships, and women will continue hurting themselves in efforts to love unprepared men or even worse, spending their best years preparing him for the next woman.