People who are critical want you to lose. They’re motivated to tear something down. They do not offer constructive criticism; they deconstruct. They’re bringing problems, not solutions. When I point out something wrong with you to make me feel better about me, I’m being critical. People who are great critical thinkers want you to win. They’re motivated to make something better. Yes, they may deconstruct, but it’s for the betterment of others. They don’t even care about the credit. When I point out something wrong with what you’re doing because I think I see a better way for you, I’m thinking
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