‘You could sort of understand, but by the same token, it’s another part of loss. You’ve lost whatever you had but then people just go by the wayside and it’s more loss. There’s nothing anyone could say, no matter how badly it came out, that could be as bad as what’s already happened to you. So it’s much better for people to just let you know that they’re there to help, if you need it. For people to show that they’re still there is the most important thing.’
