remember meeting this friend of my daughter’s who was a student here. He said, “Dr Spence, I was very sorry to hear about Mrs Spence.” I said, “Thank you very much.” He said, “How are you doing?” And I said, “Well, Rupert, it’s really hard, obviously, but we’re doing okay.” He said, “I probably can’t, but I just want you to know if I can be of help
