For instance, if you’re a person who’s wired to feel guilty unless you’re constantly busy and doing things, never able to slow down and experience Sabbath rest with a clear conscience, then you’re the one setting the standard that you’re breaking. Or if your husband comes home complaining about how dirty and disorganized the house is, after you’ve been wrangling kids and picking bubble gum out of somebody’s hair all day, then he’s the one setting the standard that makes you feel like a bad wife.
