I try to find my words and dust them off so that they mean what I want them to. “I know what asexuality is. But there’s also demisexual and gray asexual and then romantic orientation, too—and I don’t know where I fit in. I’m not comfortable with the labels, because labels feel so final. Like I have to make up my mind right this second. Like I have to be as sure of myself as everyone else seems to be.
