“We’re not saying that in the box we enjoy problems. Far from it; we hate them. In the box, it seems like there’s nothing we would want more than to be out from under them. But remember, when we’re in the box, we’re self-deceived—we’re blind to the truth about others and ourselves. And one of the things we’re blind to is how the box itself undercuts our every effort to obtain the outcomes we think we want.”
