Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
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the way to maintain motivation and achieve peak levels of desire is to work on tasks of “just manageable difficulty.”
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The human brain loves a challenge, but only if it is within an optimal zone of difficulty.
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Now consider playing tennis against someone who is your equal. As the game progresses, you win a few points and you lose a few. You have a good chance of winning, but only if you really try. Your focus narrows, distractions fade away, and you find yourself fully invested in the task at hand. This is a challenge of just manageable difficulty and it is a prime example of the Goldilocks Rule.
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The Goldilocks Rule states that humans experience peak motivation when working on tasks that are right on the edge of their current abilities. Not too hard. Not too easy. Just right.
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When you’re starting a new habit, it’s important to keep the behavior as easy as possible so you can stick with it even when conditions aren’t perfect. This is an idea we covered in detail while discussing the 3rd Law of Behavior Change.
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Once a habit has been established, however, it’s important to continue to advance in small ways. These little improvements and new challenges keep you engaged. And if you hit the Goldilocks Zone just right, you can achieve a flow state.*
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A flow state is the experience of being “in the zone” and fully immersed in an activity. Scientists have tried to quantify this feeling. They found that to achieve a state of flow, a task mu...
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working on challenges of just manageable difficulty—something on the perimeter of your ability—seems crucial for maintaining motivation.
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Improvement requires a delicate balance. You need to regularly search for challenges that push you to your edge while continuing to make enough progress to stay motivated. Behaviors need to remain novel in order for them to stay attractive and satisfying. Without variety, we get bored. And boredom is perhaps the greatest villain on the quest for self-improvement.
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“At some point it comes down to who can handle the boredom of training every day, doing the same lifts over and over and over.”
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this coach was saying that really successful people feel the same lack of motivation as everyone else. The difference is that they still find a way to show up despite the feelings of boredom.
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Mastery requires practice. But the more you practice something, the more boring and routine it becomes. Once the beginner gains have been made and we learn what to expect, our interest starts to fade.
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The greatest threat to success is not failure but boredom.
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We get bored with habits because they stop delighting us. The outcome becomes expected. And as our habits become ordinary, we start derailing our progress to seek novelty.
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As soon as we experience the slightest dip in motivation, we begin seeking a new strategy—even if the old one was still working.
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As Machiavelli noted, “Men desire novelty to such an extent that those who are doing well wish for a change as much as those who are doing badly.”
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You need just enough “winning” to experience satisfaction and just enough “wanting” to experience desire. This is one of the benefits of following the Goldilocks Rule. If you’re already interested in a habit, working on challenges of just manageable difficulty is a good way to keep things interesting.
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no habit will stay interesting forever. At some point, everyone faces the same challenge on the journey of self-improvement: you have to fall in love with boredom.
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I can guarantee that if you manage to start a habit and keep sticking to it, there will be days when you feel like quitting.
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stepping up when it’s annoying or painful or draining to do so, that’s what makes the difference between a professional and an amateur.
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avoid being “fair-weather meditators.” Similarly, you don’t want to be a fair-weather athlete or a fair-weather writer or a fair-weather anything.
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When a habit is truly important to you, you have to be willing to stick to it in any mood. Professionals take action even when the mood isn’t right. They might not enjoy it, but they find a way to put the reps in.
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The only way to become excellent is to be endlessly fascinated by doing the same thing over and over. You have to fall in love with boredom.
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The Goldilocks Rule states that humans experience peak motivation when working on tasks that are right on the edge of their current abilities.
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The greatest threat to success is not failure but boredom.
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Professionals stick to the schedule; amateurs let life get in the way.
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HABITS CREATE THE FOUNDATION FOR MASTERY.
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it is only after the basic movements of the pieces have become automatic that a player can focus on the next level of the game. Each chunk of information that is memorized opens up the mental space for more effortful thinking.
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When you know the simple movements so well that you can perform them without thinking, you are free to pay att...
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At first, each repetition develops fluency, speed, and skill. But then, as a habit becomes automatic, you become less sensitive to feedback. You fall into mindless repetition. It becomes easier to let mistakes slide. When you can do it “good enough” on autopilot, you stop thinking about how to do it better.
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The upside of habits is that we can do things without thinking. The downside of habits is that you get used to doing things a certain way and stop paying attention to little errors.
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You assume you’re getting better because you’re gaining experience. In reality, you are merely reinforcing your c...
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You can’t repeat the same things blindly and expect to become exceptional. Habits are necessary, but not sufficient for mastery. What you need is a combination of automatic habits and deliberate practice.
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Habits + Deliberate Practice = Mastery
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But after one habit has been mastered, you have to return to the effortful part of the work and begin building the next habit.
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