Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
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Anything wise in these pages you should credit to the many experts who preceded me. Anything foolish, assume it is my error.
Camilo Vasquez
Humility opens the heart and creates a connection with the readers; this phrase turned me from a reader into a fan.
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Habits are the compound interest of self-improvement.
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Success is the product of daily habits—not once-in-a-lifetime transformations.
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Time magnifies the margin between success and failure. It will multiply whatever you feed it. Good habits make time your ally. Bad habits make time your enemy.
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Time
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The seed of every habit is a single, tiny decision. But as that decision is repeated, a habit sprouts and grows stronger.
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I began to realize that my results had very little to do with the goals I set and nearly everything to do with the systems I followed.
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The goal in any sport is to finish with the best score, but it would be ridiculous to spend the whole game staring at the scoreboard. The only way to actually win is to get better each day. In the words of three-time Super Bowl winner Bill Walsh, “The score takes care of itself.” The same is true for other areas of life. If you want better results, then forget about setting goals. Focus on your system instead.
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What do I mean by this? Are goals completely useless? Of course not. Goals are good for setting a direction, but systems are best for making progress. A handful of problems arise when you spend too much time thinking about your goals and not enough time designing your systems.
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Every Olympian wants to win a gold medal. Every candidate wants to get the job. And if successful and unsuccessful people share the same goals, then the goal cannot be what differentiates the winners from the losers.
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You mentally box yourself into a narrow version of happiness.
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When you fall in love with the process rather than the product, you don’t have to wait to give yourself permission to be happy. You can be satisfied anytime your system is running.
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Changing our habits is challenging for two reasons: (1) we try to change the wrong thing and (2) we try to change our habits in the wrong way.
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The ultimate form of intrinsic motivation is when a habit becomes part of your identity. It’s one thing to say I’m the type of person who wants this. It’s something very different to say I’m the type of person who is this.
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The goal is not to read a book, the goal is to become a reader. The goal is not to run a marathon, the goal is to become a runner. The goal is not to learn an instrument, the goal is to become a musician.
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What you do is an indication of the type of person you believe that you are—either consciously or nonconsciously.
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The biggest barrier to positive change at any level—individual, team, society—is identity conflict. Good habits can make rational sense, but if they conflict with your identity, you will fail to put them into action.
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Becoming the best version of yourself requires you to continuously edit your beliefs, and to upgrade and expand your identity.
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Your identity emerges out of your habits. You are not born with preset beliefs. Every belief, including those about yourself, is learned and conditioned through experience.* More precisely, your habits are how you embody your identity. When you make your bed each day, you embody the identity of an organized person. When you write each day, you embody the identity of a creative person. When you train each day, you embody the identity of an athletic person. The more you repeat a behavior, the more you reinforce the identity associated with that behavior.
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the word identity was originally derived from the Latin words essentitas, which means being, and identidem, which means repeatedly. Your identity is literally your “repeated beingness.”
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the evidence accumulates and your self-image begins to change. The effect of one-off experiences tends to fade away while the effect of habits gets reinforced with time, which means your habits contribute most of the evidence that shapes your identity. In this way, the process of building habits is actually the process of becoming yourself.
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We change bit by bit, day by day, habit by habit. We are continually undergoing microevolutions of the self.
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Microevolutions
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Each habit is like a suggestion: “Hey, maybe this is who I am.”
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Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become. No single instance will transform your beliefs, but as the votes build up, so does the evidence of your new identity. This is one reason why meaningful change does not require radical change. Small habits can make a meaningful difference by providing evidence of a new identity. And if a change is meaningful, it actually is big. That’s the paradox of making small improvements. Putting this all together, you can see that habits are the path to changing your identity. The most practical way to change who you are is to ...more
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Each habit not only gets results but also teaches you something far more important: to trust yourself. You start to believe you can actually accomplish these things.
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It is a simple two-step process: Decide the type of person you want to be. Prove it to yourself with small wins.
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First, decide who you want to be. This holds at any level—as an individual, as a team, as a community, as a nation. What do you want to stand for? What are your principles and values? Who do you wish to become?
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Start there and work backward from the results you want to the type of person who could get those results. Ask yourself, “Who is the type of person that could get the outcome I want?” Who is the type of person that could lose forty pounds? Who is the type of person that could learn a new language?
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For example, “Who is the type of person who could write a book?” It’s probably someone who is consistent and reliable. Now your focus shifts from writing a book (outcome-based) to being the type of person who is consistent and reliable (identity-based).
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Once you have a handle on the type of person you want to be, you can begin taking small steps to reinforce your desired identity.
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but it’s important to let your values, principles, and identity drive the loop rather than your results.
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THE REAL REASON HABITS MATTER Identity change is the North Star of habit change.
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“behaviors followed by satisfying consequences tend to be repeated and those that produce unpleasant consequences are less likely to be repeated.”
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Behaviors and consecuences
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A habit is a behavior that has been repeated enough times to become automatic. The process of habit formation begins with trial and error.
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“Habits are, simply, reliable solutions to recurring problems in our environment.”