Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
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changes that seem small and unimportant at first will compound into remarkable results if you’re willing to stick with them for years.
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the quality of our lives often depends on the quality of our habits. With
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the philosophy of searching for a tiny margin of improvement in everything you do.
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Too often, we convince ourselves that massive success requires massive action.
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Your outcomes are a lagging measure of your habits. Your net worth is a lagging measure of your financial habits. Your weight is a lagging measure of your eating habits. Your knowledge is a lagging measure of your learning habits. Your clutter is a lagging measure of your cleaning habits. You get what you repeat.
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Negative thoughts compound. The more you think of yourself as worthless, stupid, or ugly, the more you condition yourself to interpret life that way. You get trapped in a thought loop.
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This is one of the core reasons why it is so hard to build habits that last. People make a few small changes, fail to see a tangible result, and decide to stop.
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if successful and unsuccessful people share the same goals, then the goal cannot be what differentiates the winners from the losers.
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Small changes often appear to make no difference until you cross a critical threshold. The most powerful outcomes of any compounding process are delayed. You need to be patient.
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The ultimate form of intrinsic motivation is when a habit becomes part of your identity. It’s one thing to say I’m the type of person who wants this. It’s something very different to say I’m the type of person who is this.
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The goal is not to read a book, the goal is to become a reader. The goal is not to run a marathon, the goal is to become a runner. The goal is not to learn an instrument, the goal is to become a musician.
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In time, you begin to resist certain actions because “that’s not who I am.” There is internal pressure to maintain your self-image and behave in a way that is consistent with your beliefs. You find whatever way you can to avoid contradicting yourself.
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The biggest barrier to positive change at any level—individual, team, society—is identity conflict.
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Progress requires unlearning. Becoming the best version of yourself requires you to continuously edit your beliefs, and to upgrade and expand your identity.
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Putting this all together, you can see that habits are the path to changing your identity. The most practical way to change who you are is to change what you do.
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Your goal is simply to win the majority of the time.
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Decide the type of person you want to be. Prove it to yourself with small wins.
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“Who is the type of person that could get the outcome I want?”
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Your habits shape your identity, and your identity shapes your habits.
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You have the power to change your beliefs about yourself. Your identity is not set in stone.
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The most effective way to change your habits is to focus not on what you want to achieve, but on who you wish to become.
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Whenever you face a problem repeatedly, your brain begins to automate the process of solving it. Your habits are just a series of automatic solutions that solve the problems and stresses you face regularly.
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Habits do not restrict freedom. They create it. In fact, the people who don’t have their habits handled are often the ones with the least amount of freedom.
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a habit can occur only if you are capable of doing it.
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Rewards are the end goal of every habit. The cue is about noticing the reward. The craving is about wanting the reward. The response is about obtaining the reward.
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The Four Laws of Behavior Change are a simple set of rules we can use to build better habits. They are (1) make it obvious, (2) make it attractive, (3) make it easy, and (4) make it satisfying.
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All habits serve you in some way—even the bad ones—which is why you repeat them.
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Habits that conflict with your desired identity are usually bad.
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people who make a specific plan for when and where they will perform a new habit are more likely to follow through.
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Many people think they lack motivation when what they really lack is clarity.
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The simple way to apply this strategy to your habits is to fill out this sentence: I will [BEHAVIOR] at [TIME] in [LOCATION].
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The key is to tie your desired behavior into something you already do each day.
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The truth, however, is that many of the actions we take each day are shaped not by purposeful drive and choice but by the most obvious option.
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If you want to make a habit a big part of your life, make the cue a big part of your environment.
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The good news? You can train yourself to link a particular habit with a particular context.
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Bad habits are autocatalytic: the process feeds itself. They foster the feelings they try to numb.
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It’s a downward spiral, a runaway train of bad habits.
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Here’s the punch line: You can break a habit, but you’re unlikely to forget
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To put it bluntly, I have never seen someone consistently stick to positive habits in a negative environment.
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A more reliable approach is to cut bad habits off at the source. One of the most practical ways to eliminate a bad habit is to reduce exposure to the cue that causes it.
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Make the cues of your good habits obvious and the cues of your bad habits invisible.
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It’s easier to avoid temptation than resist it.
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We begin by examining a biological signature that all habits share—the dopamine spike.
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it is the expectation of a rewarding experience that motivates us to act in the first place.
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Temptation bundling works by linking an action you want to do with an action you need to do.
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You’re more likely to find a behavior attractive if you get to do one of your favorite things at the same time.
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you’ll become conditioned to do it if it means you get to do something you really want to do along the way.
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Isnt this just another way of habit stacking?
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The habit stacking + temptation bundling formula is: After I [CURRENT HABIT], I will [HABIT I NEED]. After [HABIT I NEED], I will [HABIT I WANT].
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The Polgar sisters grew up in a culture that prioritized chess above all else—praised them for it, rewarded them for it.
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We don’t choose our earliest habits, we imitate them. We follow the script handed down by our friends and family, our church or school, our local community and society at large.
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