A few years ago, I had an acquaintance inform me that I had a “texting problem” because I didn’t drop everything and text back at any hour of the day. I tried to explain that I’m a writer, so I need several hours of uninterrupted silent time to do my job. But because I work from home, this was met with eye rolls. You must answer more quickly, was the response. Everyone present agreed. I had a problem. Waiting four hours is too long. You must not mute the constant pinging. You are on call to everyone at all times.

