So a man only ‘sees’ a woman’s desires when he fulfills them without being asked to do so. A woman ‘sees’ a hungry man’s maarr when, unprompted, she gives him food.” “Okay,” Faye said, “I get it.” “It’s this active sense of empathy that I love so much, the sense that one must do more than quietly relate to another human. One must also make something happen.”
