We can lust for sex; we can lust for food; we can lust for virtually any dimension of life. But when we do not get what we desire, we find our hearts full of anger and we demand to be filled. This is why treatment paradigms that exclusively focus on lust management (blocking software, accountability groups) and trauma-focused therapy (attachment theory, EMDR) will only go so far in maturing people. These paradigms contain dangerous “partial truths” that set people up to continue to sexually fail because the other half of the equation is left to fester in hiding.
