Rather than trying to stop your unwanted sexual behavior, ponder for a moment how unwanted sexual behavior has come to serve you. What would you do on a business trip without pornography? When your spouse is distant or angry, where else would you direct your anger? When you are cornered with the lack of purpose in your life, where else would you flee to? One man who was under immense financial distress said to me, “I go to sex because it’s better than the feeling I have not going to sex.” Liberation is possible, but leaving unwanted sexual behavior will put you in difficult terrain, without
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