It’s as if we have to learn to make time again. This is another skill. Set up a standing breakfast date you have with a friend, or an annual fishing trip, or have lunch at “21” every few months. I believe in making rituals. If you’re lucky, you inherit some, but you’ll have to inspire others. So start something. Go to Opening Day, the Village Vanguard, go to the Cloisters. Today can be an occasion. One day you won’t remember your life without it.
