it was pointless to get sidetracked by insecurities – someone was always going to be rude, and that wasn’t a reflection of us but of them. By going up to a boy at a bar, you had accomplished the hardest part and instantly made yourself the convenient choice. At St Keyes, we were taught that if you don’t go after what you want, then you’re never going to get it – and why was this any different? Why were we waiting for men to make their selection between us, when
