Tell me everything. Tell me about the worst thing that’s happened to you, the darkest place you’ve been. Tell me what happened next, how you picked up the pieces—some of them, at least; they’re not all worth keeping—and made something new. Tell me what happens next, where you’re heading, and who you want by your side. Tell me what keeps you up at night, or if you sleep like an old dog (not like a baby, you should know that babies don’t sleep that well).