few scant facts about my life. “You should refrain from making any decisions for at least a year,” said people who didn’t realize that not making any decisions is a decision and impossible when you’re the only parent to a small child relying on you to make decisions like where he’ll go to preschool, or where you’ll live together. Children quite rudely insist on growing and changing exponentially each year. Kids will not pause for grief, even if you ask them nicely.
