What to Do When I'm Gone: A Mother's Wisdom to Her Daughter

by Suzy Hopkins

Life’s a crapshoot. By staying calm and organized in the face of it, you will be able to find your socks when you need them.

Death is uncivil; thank-you notes are civil. Expressing gratitude forces you to focus on living people who care about you rather than on the enormity of your loss.

What we carry of other people, even when they’re alive, is simply our perception of them, an idea. That means I’m here as long as you remember me. And since I’m here, I suggest you get busy living, seeking out happiness, moving forward.

But work isn’t just a way to earn a paycheck. It’s integral to your quality of life. Seek out work you’re excited about. Find a way to pursue your interests and be well-compensated for it. It’s no fun to be poor. Earn a bunch of money and spread it around.