In my work with couples, I aim to uncover dynamics of power.
I honestly think this is an interesting notation. There is a power exchange within relationships wether it's spoken or unspoken, unconcious or conciously acknowledged throughout the relationship. This statement has made me think about why power struggles happen in relationships. Is it because there's an issue between what one person needs vs what one person is willing to do? (believe's that they should have to) (i even went to google to get a better idea of what power exchanges even mean)
Examples of power exchange relationships include instances where partners agree to a negotiated and consensual exchange of decision-making, control, or responsibilities in a relationship, such as a dominant partner making all financial decisions for the household. Unlike unhealthy power dynamics that can involve control or abuse, power exchange in a healthy relationship is consensual, with clear rules, expectations, and limits for all parties involved.
Feminism impacts power exchange relationships by emphasizing informed consent, mutual respect, and deconstructing traditional power dynamics that often lead to abuse. It challenges harmful gender stereotypes and promotes communication to ensure that any chosen power exchange is consensual and ethical, rather than a replication of patriarchal power imbalances or coercive control. While some interpretations of feminism and BDSM clash, a feminist approach to power exchange seeks to create a space where individuals can explore these dynamics safely and equitably, grounded in a thorough understanding of trust and communication.
(https://mytherapynyc.com/power-exchange-relationships/#:~:text=Couple%20rules%20like%2C%20always%20being,expectation%20of%20punishment%20if%20broken.)
