Marie started vilifying Wesley in her head, and his going to sleep with the television on became a symbol of his extreme selfishness in all areas. If you find that the two of you get more and more polarized, more extreme, and more uncompromising, you’re gridlocked. Eventually this will lead to emotional distance between the two of you, and this is the real relationship killer—not anger, or arguments, or conflict in general—but the distance you let it create between you.
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