Make a pie chart and map out your hours for a typical day. How much time is spent working apart from each other (paid work outside the home), and how many hours are spent working together (unpaid work in the home)? How many hours are spent connecting in the relationship? How many with family (if applicable)? How much time is spent alone? Now make a second pie chart and write down your ideal time for each of these areas. If, for example, you’d like to spend three hours a day connecting, and two hours a day solo, and the reality is you spend about one hour for both—then you know what areas you
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