There are two types of conflict: ~ Solvable problems are situational and about the topic. There isn’t usually a deeper meaning to the conflict or a person’s position. ~ Perpetual problems are fundamental differences in your personalities or lifestyle needs. All couples have perpetual problems, and these account for 69 percent of conflicts. Perpetual problems can become gridlocked problems, and when partners feel criticized, rejected, or unaccepted by the other partner, this can be a sign you’ve entered into gridlock.
