Putting others down by name-calling, insults, or blame. This includes sarcasm, even among friends, or meant in jest. • Rescuing others: doing for them what they can do for themselves. This victimizes and infantilizes them and gives you dominance over them. • Emotional or physical violence. • Competitiveness and attempts to prove people wrong. • Acting spitefully or vengefully toward people who are rude or hurtful to you.