It’s one way to make yourself feel superior and better. As long as you insist on a mythological justice system for everything and are careful to keep your tally sheet in balance, you’ll hold onto your holier than thou feeling and use up your present moments with smugness rather than effective living. • You can give up responsibility for yourself and justify being immobilized by shifting the responsibility to those people and events that are not fair. A scapegoating for your lack of ability to be and feel what you choose. In this way, you can avoid risks, and the hard work of change. As long as
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