You only have the power to change yourself. You can’t change another person. You must see yourself, not the other person, as the problem. To see another person as the problem to be fixed is to give that person power over you and your well-being. Because you cannot change another person, you are out of control. The real problem lies in how you are relating to the problem person. You are the one in pain, and only you have the power to fix it.
