And when he holds her, when she turns around close to him and they dance, with her toes on his feet so that he’s carrying her whole weight with every little step, it’s all worth it. It becomes the whole world. ‘Do you remember when the children were really small, Fatima? When you’d get to preschool and they’d run towards you and literally jump up into your arms? Jump with complete abandon because they trusted us to catch them, that’s my favourite moment in the whole world.’