But Ley also interviewed couples in which the man participated in his wife’s sexual experiences with other men, and he told me that “quite a few men into this lifestyle have bisexual leanings.” They wouldn’t feel comfortable going to a gay club, but they might give a man oral sex in the context of cucking, if their wives directed them to as part of their play, Ley explained. One man Ley interviewed—married for twenty-two years and deeply in love with his wife—identified as bisexual and said he enjoyed “silky seconds” with her after she had had sex with another man because “his presence lingers
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