“What I saw was a number of women who, as they start initially to engage in this to fulfill their husband’s fantasies and needs, gradually they themselves begin to develop more sexual autonomy and independence. These women will say, ‘I’m interested in doing this, in developing relationships’ or just in doing it their own way, without the men’s controls placed on it.” To paraphrase a saying among swingers, be careful what you wish for when you yourself are a guy who can have perhaps several orgasms per day but are married to a woman who can have many times that per hour. The fear and the
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