“I don’t think you really even want to talk to me, because I’m really—unusual…” most of the women I’ve spoken with begin by saying when we meet to talk. Why’s that? I wonder. “Because I have a really strong libido. And—I don’t think I’m cut out for monogamy,” they tell me, haltingly, one after another. We chat over coffee, in person, or on the phone. They fear they are going to “throw the data” with their freakish singularity. They think they are outliers. They are foreign to the tribe of women, they suggest and believe.
