Chivers spoke quickly about topics familiar to most of her listeners, including Rosemary Basson’s concept of “responsive desire.” This “desire style” is more common among women than men, according to numerous sex researchers and therapists, and describes a tendency to feel sexually excited after erotic stimulation, versus in anticipation of it (that’s called “spontaneous desire,” based on an experience that sexual desire is an appetite like hunger that just comes upon us).
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