Mischa Lin asked me, would we say of our children “One has to go. There isn’t enough room in my heart for two kids”? When we make a new friend, do we send the others packing with the explanation “Sorry, I only have enough energy and bandwidth for one”? We do not. And this is evidence enough for poly practitioners that love, lust, and feelings of connection are nearly endlessly plentiful, not finite, and can and do grow expansively, even exponentially, if we let them.
