Their behavior was so different from the girls’. They said what they thought and what they liked, and that made it easier for me. If a problem came up, we fought and then it was resolved. With the girls, I could be playing and then suddenly realize that they were all exchanging these weird looks. Then I would know that I’d said or done something that wasn’t right, but no one would tell me exactly what I’d done. I remember wondering how in the world I was going to learn right from wrong if they wouldn’t tell me what I’d done
