I myself do not enjoy the society of small children: because I speak from within the Tao I recognize this as a defect in myself—just as a man may have to recognize that he is tone deaf or colour blind.
You can appreciate and value virtue and model your life on it, but still recognize that others may not to the extent where you must deal with them outside of virtue. War, crime, liars.
That does not, however, redefine "virtue" by popular usage.
