up the intimacy, he might not mind as much,” I said. “Does that fall under the exercise category?” asked Janet. I laughed. “There’s that, but it has more to do with the healthy-relationships piece of things. Sometimes I think folks out there are waiting for a fancy pill to show up and they’re missing the point that we, as humans, have a profound power to heal ourselves and one another. Look, the research defines toxic stress in children as long-term changes to brains and bodies in the
