Allow the actual sensations that seem to make up the feeling of wanting itself to be directly understood as and where they are. Remember that this same quality of compassion is in all beings, in all their unskillful and confused attempts both to find happiness and to put an end to their suffering. Sit for a while with this reflection as it relates directly to your experience. Then, examine the mental sensations related to the object that you either wish to have (attraction), wish to get away from (aversion), or wish to ignore (ignorance). Examine realistically if this will fundamentally help
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