How to Make Sh*t Happen: Make more money, get in better shape, create epic relationships and control your life!

by Sean Whalen

helped me build a life where I am in control. I control my day. I control my finances. I control my body and fitness. I learned how to get exactly what I want in all the areas of my life.

It’s how you eat the elephant. You can try to fit the entire elephant in your mouth, but it’s obvious that won’t work. The insanity of life though, is that we will try and try and try to eat the entire thing in one bite. The elephants are our goals.

See, we humans are programmed to take the easy path. The path of least resistance. So, when we face a challenge, or we are tasked with something difficult to do, we will make an excuse. We will get punched in the face then blame everyone and everything around us.

Everyone reading this has the same 24 hours in a day and has the same ability to voice simple and clear words of YES or NO. Yes, I will do it. No, I will not do it.

Do what they do. Eat what they eat. Follow their lead.

Whatever you choose, you MUST IMMEDIATELY make your BODY a daily priority. Rain or shine. Sore or not. EVERY SINGLE DAY.

However, the #1 thing you MUST be committed to every single day is this: DOING THE FUCKING WORK!

at the end of it all, the drama you carry from those relationships is your fault, and you are single-handedly giving away all that power, energy, and goodness.

ANY DRAMA, RESENTMENT, BITTERNESS or ANGER in your life, it is 100% YOUR FAULT.

That was a CHOICE. Just like being mad at someone is a CHOICE.

He didn’t know any better.

He did the best with what he had and what he knew.

I started to see just how NEGATIVE it was for me to hang on to any of the drama or anger with him.

YOU ELIMINATE EVERY ASPECT OF DRAMA IN YOUR LIFE. You literally do the exact opposite of what you think will bring you happiness.

You are 100% in control of the other humans you allow in your space every day.

If there is a significant other in your life, you invest in that relationship EVERY DAY

Every single day you take a specific action, that action has a specific purpose, and is an intentional investment in that relationship.

YOU MUST INVEST. You must date your lover. You must spend time with your kids. You must clear any and all drama from your space. There is INFINITE power available to you when you have strong relationships around you.

Date night is NON-NEGOTIABLE fellas (and ladies). Make it happen, mix it up, and use that time to connect.

Literally, “As you think, so you are.”

If I fail to manage the garden (my mind) the weeds simply take over, and undesirable things will indeed grow. Drama. Fear. Doubt. Hesitation. Lies. Resentment. Failure.

witness, WHAT YOU PUT IN YOUR BRAIN WILL GROW!

GOOD THOUGHTS INTO MY MIND! This single daily action could change your life. Do it for 90 days and see what happens. Your days will be better. Your workouts will be stronger. Your connection and interactions with family and co-workers throughout the day will shift.

Make money every day. Get paid every single day. If you are not doing that, what exactly are you doing? A wise man and dear friend told me something that I will never forget: “Money is freedom.”

HOW YOU DO ONE THING IS HOW YOU DO EVERYTHING.

Hiring a coach is not lame,

Quite the contrary, it makes you smart as fuck!

Learning what others are doing to crush it and copying their blueprint saves you time,

Good leaders know what they don’t know. Good business owners know what they don’t know.

Millions of people get up every day, put the excuses and bullshit to the side, and then fucking create! Trust me, you and your ailment are not special. Your story is not special or unique. Your loss is not new.

YOU ARE THE VALUE. Take your knowledge and GIVE IT TO PEOPLE!

Get CLEAR.

WHAT EXACTLY DO I WANT? Now 99% of you just thought, “I want more money.” No shit you do, you are broke. My question back to you is: HOW MUCH MONEY? If you are not where you want to be right now financially, you will need first to determine exactly what you want

Nothing will be more important than answering this one question, WHAT EXACTLY DO I WANT.

Get CLEAR on where you want to go; then you can build a map to get there.

So, who exactly should you copy? The people doing what you want to be doing, and who are AT THE TOP OF THE GAME!

Find the people leading.

Leaders create systems and ways to do things BETTER.

COPY THEM. COPY THE PEOPLE AT THE TOP OF THE GAME!

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ADD VALUE TO THESE PEOPLE. Ask how you can help them.

You cannot wait until tomorrow; you must start now.

Join a mastermind.

“you are who your friends are,”

-If you do not love what you do, quit doing what you are doing immediately.

Every single person is creating the same structure and daily habits to get success. A network of people working hard and pushing each other.

habits will produce powerful results.

your relationship will produce good results.

your body will get you in shape.

mind will plant seeds that will bring for...