I thought it would be like a job interview with a Fortune 500 company, but then I walked into a room filled with a lot of older men, where it felt like Bill Cosby was trying to get me to drink a special cocktail. They gawked at me in a way I’d never been stared at in my life. I finally knew what it felt like to be objectified, the way so many women are. It was also clearly on me to impress them, to act like I was cool with the poking and prodding. I felt like they were Kardashians and I was an NBA starting center.