Maybe you go months without monitoring how much is in your bank account, or days without looking at your teeth; I highly doubt it. I can’t tell you exactly how often you should check in on your relationship. (As much as you check the thermostat? Fill your car with gas?) The most technical I ever get is early and often; often and early. Because, however great you think you are at mind reading, at guessing what an expression or lack of expression means, my years of hanging around folks who are finally confronting the fact that their relationship did not go as planned have taught me this: Your
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