If you’re in a relationship with Ones, know that you will have to contend with a critic that you can’t hear, but that finds fault with most of what Ones do and think, and tells them they are flawed in some terrible, unredeemable way. Unfortunately, their method of coping is to find fault in others—often finding fault in you. They believe criticism is caring, so they have to be taught that not everybody feels the same way about being corrected or encouraged to seek improvement.