Ones always know something else needs to be done, so we don’t give ourselves any space to relax. And what that does unintentionally in relationships is it doesn’t allow the other people around us to relax either. So, if I’m in the house, whether I’m saying anything or not, and I’m all jittery because I know I still have a couple of things on my to-do list, I can’t be still. There is no reason why those things couldn’t be done tomorrow. They don’t have to be done today, but I’m thinking, “I have a little block of time and I should get that thing done.” When I respond to that urge to keep
