An Eight who is married and the mother of four explained her vulnerability in her family relationships: I will want to trust you with everything even though that is hard for me. I will be in your corner all the time. I will fight for you more than I will fight with you. I will surprise you with my mushy tears and maybe even eventually I won’t try to cover them up. I will feel angry at you when you are being angry at me, and I’ll have to work really hard to find the feelings underneath that. I will love you beyond reason and that might scare me in the beginning.