Fives are in the Fear Triad on the left side of the Enneagram and they manage their fear by gathering information and knowledge. That information is usually shared thoughtfully and methodically. It’s standard for them to withhold pieces of information, share their feelings with only one or two people, and manage their reactions with thinking. Although they are unique in their need for privacy and independence, Fives’ boundaries do allow for the exchange of personal information, but only on their terms.