Don’t try to get Sevens to commit to specific routines and schedules. They need spontaneity and flexibility. Sevens need the other person in the relationship to have his or her own energy and interests. Don’t depend on Sevens for constant companionship. When criticism is necessary, be gentle and brief. If you want to share your feelings with a Seven, by all means do that. But do not process your feelings with a Seven. You will need to do that with someone else. Sevens love to be with people, and they really value time alone. It will help if you contribute to making both happen. It’s not
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