The Path Between Us: An Enneagram Journey to Healthy Relationships

by Suzanne Stabile

Your stress number is not necessarily a negative move—you need the behavior of the number you go to in stress to take care of yourself.

First, please don’t use your Enneagram number as an excuse for your behavior. Second, don’t use what you’ve learned about the other numbers to make fun of, criticize, stereotype, or in any way disrespect them. Ever. Third, it would be great if you would spend your energy observing and working on yourself as opposed to observing and working on others.