When Ones are experiencing too much stress, they begin to assign moral value to mistakes. If others miss a deadline or forget a meeting, it can escalate. Ones might first label the coworker as lazy or indifferent, but that can deteriorate to labels like useless or no good. Labels like that can wound and damage or even change a relationship permanently. Keep in mind that such behavior comes directly from the way Ones berate themselves when they make a mistake or miss a deadline, so they do the same to others. But other numbers don’t abuse themselves in that way, so they struggle to tolerate
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