Anger. Like Eights and Ones, Nines are in the Anger Triad at the top of the Enneagram. You know when Eights are angry with you—they are clear about why and they wait for your response, then go on with their day. Not so with passive-aggressive Nines. They’re quietly stubborn—perhaps the most stubborn number on the Enneagram. They refuse to be nagged or pushed or coerced into doing anything, so if that’s your method in relating to a Nine you will experience a lot of frustration and disappointment with very little success. Nines have their ways of letting you know they are hurt or angry, but none
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