In stress, Twos go to Eight, which means they have more self-confidence and they care less about what other people think. They find that they can say no to things that are not theirs to do and they have more patience with process and personal differences. When Twos are feeling secure they have access to some Four energy, awareness, and behavior, so they can be accepting of their own feelings. They might even be able to admit that in fact they don’t love everybody. In this place of security, they discover some self-worth that isn’t connected to helping others, and they can even focus inward at
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