The first is that Twos generally don’t see themselves as worthy of needing anyone’s help. The second reason is a bit more complex: Twos are afraid to express a need or desire because if no one responds, they fear they won’t be able to manage the pain and disappointment. But relationships require reciprocity, so Twos have to learn to ask directly for what they want or need and then they must cultivate the grace to receive it. When they don’t, they often resort to manipulation.
