If your son is feeling a purpose void but unable to articulate what he is feeling, and simultaneously hearing in school and on the news that he has all the power and privilege and is the reason women were held back, he may withdraw into the video games and video porn that can distract him from his frustration and alienation. As he sees single moms by choice and single moms by divorce, and women who choose not to marry at all, he may intuitively sense he is living in an era of the multi-option woman and the no-option man but never be able to articulate it.

